Home Base

​Did you play tag as a kid?  One person was "It" and ran around trying to tag someone else. Whoever they tagged became"It"! You were only safe if you evaded "It" or were on Home Base. On Home Base, you were completely safe no matter what you did, even if you taunted "It"! ​

As a kid, I took it for granted that my siblings and I had a Home Base in our parents.  They were a constant who created a safe space even when you messed up. They instilled a sense of discipline, work ethic, compassion, service, and love of family.  They extended this not only to their six children but also to our friends. Early in my teaching career, it became evident that not all children had a Home Base. This realization made me more grateful for that gift, and I actively tried to become a Home Base for my students and people I met.  

Since my father passed away, I am very aware that Home Base is a two way street for Mom and me. So naturally, I moved in March when there was talk of quarantine.   While at Mom's, I had the floors refinished and painted my home's walls fresh for my return.  In July, my sister/other-mother said, "Since the house was in such good shape, it's the perfect time to sell and move in permanently with Mom."  My first response was, "What are you talking about!" but Mom and I were on board within two days!  It took a few weeks to get ready, and once on the market, my home sold in 1 day!

Mom and Annie

 It was surprising that it was such an easy decision for me until I realized that although I loved my home, Mom is my Home Base and it is a gift to share my life with her at this stage of life. 

It was a compliment that several of my friends lamented the sale of my home.  To some degree, it had become Home Base to each of them. I know Mom's and my Home Base will envelop them as soon as we can safely gather.  

Now you know why my business and blog have been quiet for some time. Remember When Studio is settled and ready to resume creating again from Home Base. It is my wish that you have also found your Home Base.